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numi wrote:Are u ok Dan? please tell us what & how u feel since mum has gone.
numi

yes i am ok...thanks for asking...i feel sad...missing her more each day...we've lived in this house for 50 years...so many reminders in every room...thats very hard...so many memories...but they are good memories...i am trying to focus on that than being sad she is gone...but that always is there...as they say...itll take time

im doing things she would want me to do...she was a very giving person...so some of the stuff she ate and drank i didnt like so i wont eat or drink them...i have given some stuff to people who do...got some specific stuff i can return to the store and recoup some money so thats cool...also will have to donate her clothes to a local place...but i cant do that yet...too many reminders with her clothes...there is no rush

yellowfoden wrote:Hello Dan,

Sorry to read this news Dan, our sincere sympathies from the other side of the world.

Bert

thanks Bert

Dan I'm sure your Mom would be very proud of the way your handing things. It does take time, it's a process. You're allowing yourself that time, so that's good. I'm sure along the way you will have many memories and thoughts and feelings. It nice to know that you are able to find some comfort in those good memories.

Will keep you in my thoughts, wishing you the best with things. I know its not an easy time.

zBret

thanks Bret